In his view, the soulmate belief is a trap - not the romance itself, but the expectation that love should never be hard. The most "soulful" part of a long relationship, he says, is not a cinematic charge, but having "front-row seats not only for each other's strengths, but... [their] challenges and weaknesses".
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